(In Response to) 19 Ways to Make Me Fall in Love With You

I read this list (19 Ways To Make Me Fall in Love With You) today, but decided it wasn't at all the what one would need to do to "make" me fall in love with them. So, I decided to create my own list.

Here it is:


20 ways to make me fall in love with you:

1. Make me smile/laugh through silly jokes, unspoken acknowledgement of quirky situations, and the ability to entertain absurd conversations.

2. Build me something. (nearly) anything. Bonus points if it's functional.

3. Take me away. The quickest way to this girl's heart is a plane ticket to a new place. (A long road trip can also suffice.)

4. Cuddle. Physical affection is very important.

5. Send random messages throughout the course of the day just to let me know you're thinking of me.

6. Make dinner AND clean up once in awhile.

7. Hold the door open for others, help an old lady carry her groceries to the car, be kind to waiters/waitresses- in general: be kind and compassionate.

8. Accept me. That includes the good, the bad, the ugly, the beautiful. 

9. Listen to me because you want to know me. 

10. Watch what I do because you want to understand.

11. Be active, eat well, and take care of yourself. Nothing is as unattractive as someone who doesn't take care of themselves physically, mentally, emotionally, etc. 

12. Be supportive of my interests even if it's not "your thing."

13. Be honest. Tactfully. Tell me you've seen me look better in other outfits. Tell me I have kale in my teeth. Honesty in even the seemingly little things goes a long way.

14. Stand by me, walk by my side- literally and figuratively. Tell me when I'm wrong, but make sure I know you always have my back. 

15. Be sociable with others. Interact with my friends and make an effort to get to know them.

16. Communicate with me, even when it's about something that's uncomfortable or difficult.

17. Teach/Introduce me (how) to (do) new things. 

18. Have impromptu conversations with me that last long into the middle hours of the night.

19. Cloud/star watch with me.

20. Love me.